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YOU’VE NEVER WORKED FOR ANYTHING – BEEN GIVEN IT ALL.
Do you fall into this imagined “category”?
I’ve not met many of these people, most are hard working, learned their “trade” and want to be good at what they do.
Few WANT to think about, how THEY’d cope with the increased levels of stress (pressure), which can be immeasurable.
Working with family can be, and often is more difficult, than working for a business you can switch off from.
They will talk to you, as, and when they like, unless relationships are healthy.
Others, wouldn’t accept this, without threatening “action”.
Fighting and break downs in relationships, rivalries, over power and control, aren’t uncommon.
What do you spend your extra money on, “coping”?
Alcohol – Gambling – Cars – Clothes?
It’s difficult, dealing with this NONSENSE.
I unconsciously did what I knew best, gave all my CRITICS what they already believed.
Never having the audacity to tell them how I truly felt about them, and their opinions on life.
You don’t tell the story of leaving home at 17, mid exams, because you were arguing so badly with your parents.
Personalities, lacking an understanding of each other.
Not resolving the undelying issues, then going into business with them.
Add Manipulative Outside Influences, and 
At 17, I was regularly drinking with my mates, I played rugby with, it’s what we did.
I also had many unresolved emotional issues at 17, and I’d discovered alcohol changed the way I felt.
Each negative experience, adding to them.
Other than drinking, I hadn’t learned to deal with them.
Being with friends, in our local, offered sanctuary and belonging, we were “Pub Personalities”
I’d been fighting all my life to fit in, to be accepted, this was 
Not anymore, I now need nothing outside of myself to change my state, or feel accepted.
I understand myself, I’ve never been this authentic, rebuilding all the broken relationships.
You’ll not do this drinking, or hiding in another way from yourself and life.
You’ll Notice, I never blame alcohol, I only focus on myself, let’s talk.