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Healing is Someone You Become

๐‘๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ฌ๐ง’๐ญ ๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ˆ๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐’๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐žโ€ฆ ๐€๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐˜๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‚๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ข๐œ ๐’๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ, ๐€๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐…๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐ž๐œ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ, ๐ˆ๐ง๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ง๐ข๐š – ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง along with my horrendous lifestyleโ€ฆ distracting and numbing myself, using any coping mechanisms I could think about usingโ€ฆ everything finally “broke”โ€ฆ ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ƒ๐ข๐๐ง’๐ญ ๐‡๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐›๐ฒ ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž They healed because […]

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High Performance was My Prison – until I Saw the Truth.

“๐—œ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—œ ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ. ๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜‚๐—ฝ.” Itโ€™s easy to look at a decision like that from the outside and think it was impulsive, or nonsensical – it wasn’t The truth is, I couldn’t have made that decision until Iโ€™d done the real work

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Changing Your Identity – Changes Your Life

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐’๐ข๐๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐‡๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ? ๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญโ€ฆ ๐–๐ก๐จ’๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐Ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐’๐ข๐๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐Ž๐›๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ฅ๐ž? Yesterday, I thought I’d go out for a 10 mile walk ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป Clearly this gradual rise, an obstacle to be negotiated isn’t anywhere near as BIG as it looked in 2014 Having been laying in an

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Don’t You Owe it to Yourself?

๐ƒ๐จ๐ง’๐ญ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ž๐ฐ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ? ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐“๐ก๐ž ‘ ๐ˆ๐๐ž๐š๐ฅ ‘ ๐˜๐Ž๐” & ๐‹๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐‹๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐‹๐ข๐ค๐ž? ๐‚๐š๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐›๐ž ๐†๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐„๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ? Being capable, and comfortable, with sharing your story Is something a decade ago, I would not have believed so that others might, if they choose, have a better life would be

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When You Change the Way You Look at Things.

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐–๐š๐ฒ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐‹๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐š๐ญ ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ –๐“๐ก๐ž ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐‹๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐š๐ญ ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž ๐Ÿ˜ณ Beginning with yourself of course… What would you add – โœ… โ˜‘๏ธ โŒ โœ–๏ธ… Enjoying Your Own Company โœ…Disliking Yourself and Being on Your Own โŒPeaceful Mind โœ…Calmness in Body โœ…Exercising โœ…Sleeping (through the sleep cycles) โœ…Fuelling Your Body

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The Fear of Losing Your Friends

๐‘พ๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐‘จ๐’“๐’†๐’’๐’• ๐‘ฌ๐’๐’‹๐’๐’š๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’€๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐‘ฌ๐’™๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’Š๐’†๐’๐’„๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’‡๐’†๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’๐’Š๐’„๐’†๐’” ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐‘ด๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† – ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐‘ท๐’‚๐’•๐’‰ ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐‘ป๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† Is either going to change this, or not An issue of course, you’ll likely believe you’ll lose friends, & other things you’re comfortable with Doesn’t this happen naturally – marriage, children, commitments, different interests? If it hasn’t, you’ve probably

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Our Inner/Higher Self

The importance of communication, along with acceptance, allowing, and understanding, cannot be emphasised enough. Of course, healthy relationships are highly beneficial and important when it comes to our family, romantic, social, and work. What about the ones we have with ourselves? Isn’t this the most important relationship that should be healthy? When we accept and

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Alcohol – Addictions – Health and our relationships with them.

๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†? ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ž๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ, ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—น, ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต, ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ, ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ. Attempting to be “strong” while you “deal” with your pain and unhappiness in life, by nurturing unhealthy relationships with your coping mechanisms,

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How were you to know?

๐——๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—œ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ, ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—œ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฑ ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ… All I understood, pretty quickly, drinking alcohol meant, I no longer had to feel the way I did about life, I could change it in no time. By 30yrs old, I’d been doing this so long, I’d no idea how

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