Aelf-Awareness

Trying to Think and Force My Way to a Better Life… Almost Killed Me at Forty.

When you’ve decided you want more… … it’s Imperative You don’t have a Cognitive or Spiritual Bypass as You Create the Life You Want. Techniques are Tools… Nothing More. You’re a HIGH ACHIEVER You understand using your intelligence to override your feelings, emotions, and biology. This is cognitive bypass. The prefrontal cortex – the conductor […]

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Not Feeling like yourself when you slow down.

๐€๐ซ๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐š ๐‡๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐€๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐–๐ก๐จ’๐ฌ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐–๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง ๐‹๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž… ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐‚๐š๐ง’๐ญ ๐–๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ ๐–๐ก๐ฒ. You don’t Feel Like Yourself when You Slow Down, or Stop? You had a loving upbringing, you lived in abundance… maybe you didn’t? This is why being a HIGH ACHIEVER is a State of Being… everything else a metric. You’ve

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The Silent War of High Achievers.

High Achiever – The Silent War.When Suppressed Anger and Fear Trapped Me in Functional Freeze. โ€‹For years, I lived in a statethat I didn’t recognise as a crisis. I was fighting for my business, income, lifestyle, and most importantly, my identity. That constant, high-stakes battle meant I was perpetually fueled by chronic stress, adrenaline, cortisol,

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Always Speak Your Truth.

๐’๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ค ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐“๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก – ๐–๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐€๐ฉ๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐ฒ Before I Speak – it’s Carefully Considered & I’m talking from experience Too many people hold back what needs to be said because theyโ€™re afraid of โ€œoffendingโ€ someone But hereโ€™s the truth Offense is Taken – Not Given Your words donโ€™t cause offense – people react based on their

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Unleashing the Hidden Potential of Stress

Transient Hypofrontality: Unleashing the Hidden Potential of Stress in Personal Growth In the pursuit of personal growth and self-improvement, we often hear about the importance of managing stress. Stress is typically seen as an obstacle to overcome on our journey towards a better life. However, there’s an intriguing concept called “transient hypofrontality” that challenges this

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The Potential Negative Effects of Spiritual Bypassing.

I wanted to shed light on a topic that’s important to discuss: Spiritual Bypassing. Taking the elevator to floor 5, missing out, 1,2,3 &4. Doesn’t work, in the long term. While spirituality can bring immense benefits, it’s crucial to be aware of its potential negative effects. 1๏ธโƒฃ Suppressing Emotions: Sometimes, we use spiritual beliefs to

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Do Other People’s Opinions Matter to YOU?

๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—ง๐—œ๐— ๐—˜ ๐—•๐—œ๐—š๐—š๐—˜๐—ฆ๐—ง ๐—๐—ข๐—ž๐—˜๐—ฆ. YOU’VE NEVER WORKED FOR ANYTHING – BEEN GIVEN IT ALL. Do you fall into this imagined “category”? I’ve not met many of these people, most are hard working, learned their “trade” and want to be good at what they do. Few WANT to think about, how THEY’d cope

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Our Inner Child

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐’๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ž ๐Œ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ-๐ˆ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐š๐๐๐ข๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž…๐›๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐œ๐จ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ, ๐ž๐ฑ๐ž๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž, ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฑ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ …๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ. Obviously, you first have to admit you have an issue that needs to be addressed, be it stopping completely, or cutting back, denial only leads to more pain. The

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