What is it You Truly Want in Life?
Unfulfilled, Disintegrating, and Disliking what I'm Doing.
I'd fallen out of love with our business, and what I was doing in life many years before collapsing.
Or rather, I'd reached a point where I couldn't deal with the pressure of working in a toxic environment
with my toxic business partners, who would do anything, as they attempted to control me, and gain
an element of control themselves, this they'd done working as a team, for twenty years.
Is Walking Away as Easy as it Sounds?
Having been fighting over the business for twenty years, and not walking away when the pressure
was almost unbearable, there was little intention of doing it now, even after being in an ICU almost
dead, then, unable to walk for weeks, with very little muscle mass, potential brain damage, and all
the other internal issues I had.
I often discuss, how invested you easily become in your business/career/lifestyle - IDENTITY
When you have attained a level in life, you can see where it's going, the potential it has for you, your loved ones,
your lifestyle, to step up another level, maybe a few, it's not so easy to walk away.
There are many questions that require an unanswer, crucial answers, that you need to make the decision.
Obtaining Clarification - The Answers
Before you can make a huge decision about your life, you must first have found a calmer
more balanced approach to it, and the situations you've found yoursefl in previously.
Making decsions while you're stilll stressed, anxious, frustrated, and insecure about what it
implies, which is adding to your inability to sleep, isn't going to work out well.
For me - this is where my plan came into play...
Once I'd confirmed my beliefs about my business, the partners, outside influences
anything I could think about logically, then dig deep, how did I truly see my future
in the business, or without my shares in it, and the positives it would bring to my life.
I made the decision to walk away on my terms.
Making Your Decision.
You are able to make you decsion about your future, and not regret it.
Before you can do this, overcoming the presenting issues you have in life
is critical to you being capable of making an informed decision.
This is where changing your perception of yourself, your self-concept
comes in, you cannot know what you truly want in life, until you better
understand yourself.
Finding Purpose.
During the process of growth, I experienced, I not only overcame the
chronic stress, anxiety, insecurities, frustration, insomnia, and coping mechanisms
that had been my constant companions for many years.
I found myself, hidden under the layers of conditioning, I'd started living in alignment
with my values, questioned and changed my beliefs, rewired my brain, regulated my nervous system
raised my energy, moving away from living in survival, to a more heart-centered way of living.
It didn't stop there, I found my voice again and learned to express myself in a healthy way
by 2017, having rebuilt myself and my life almost completely from scratch.
I'd decided I wanted to help other driven, business, career people like you, find the calmness
peace, balance, and fulfillment I've found in my life.
Not use my knowledge to destroy other people and their lives, and continue fighting life.