Is that – you, as a HIGH ACHIEVER, can learn from their experience, and make the decision to change, before your system tells you to. One thing you understand when both you and your life collapse almost completely… …the way you were addressing life didn’t work. No judgment, your whole system has adapted brilliantly over
Doesn’t mean losing yourself or your edge. Thunder and lightning, hailstones the size of large marbles – this is flow. Resolving the Underlying Cause of Burnout, Alcohol Dependency, Coping Mechanisms, and Chronic Stress from the Inside – Out. Recently at the hospital, a gastroenterology specialist asked me, “How are you doing?” Are you drinking? How
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What Does Living Life on Your Terms with a Regulated Nervous System, Integrated, and Awareness Look Like to a High Achiever? Living with Stress, Anxiety, Frustration, Insomnia, Anger, in SURVIVAL, where there is a requirement for activities and substances to regulate internally, is exhausting. Living in Overdrive – Sympathetic Dominance Functional Freeze – Performing while
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When you’re spending a great deal of your time in environments where there are others with their own unresolved issues, most have, and big personalities… striving to dominate. Where everyone is attempting to feel safe internally, whether they know it or not. Would you say you’re allowing them to cross the line, step over your
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𝐈𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐚 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐀𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐡𝐨’𝐬 𝐈𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐁𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬. 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐄𝐦𝐩𝐭𝐲, 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞. You’re Stressed Out, Anxious, Frustrated, Comparing Yourself to Others, Can’t Switch Off or Sleep. This is me sitting in my office in my early thirties, burning out, my life collapsing. With a business, career,
That’s a question we don’t ask ourselves. It’s a question I asked myself 12 years ago, my why didn’t change; my perspective did. Adaptation and Conditioning throughout our lives lead us to believe we must be a certain person to be accepted and survive. Competition is good; you must move forward every day, be better
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After hitting another “Rock Bottom” 12 years ago, I decided that I wanted more in life. I created a vision of my new Identity, and it immediately became the new me. I’d decided I wasn’t going to be the guy in white, ever again. Sitting in his leather office chair, holding it all together as
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Something important I realised when I decided to create a new identity, and life, in 2014. Previously, the environment I was in, or walked into, changed the way my body felt, and my thinking. In our business, office environment, I contracted, and became even more strategic. At a customer site, it could go either way,
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Leader vs Winner – What’s the Difference? Recently, in St. Tropez, while my friend and I were eating breakfast. Mame Cafe and Restaurant – St Tropez – for Breakfast. I couldn’t help overhearing an American gentleman discussing traits, vibes, and life with his children. This guy was clearly a high achiever who had done well
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to which I replied… If I “should be dead“, don’t you think I would be. This was a conscious response, not a REACTION; there was no anger or a need to convince the audience. Everything I discuss comes from regulation and integration, resolution, not reliving unresolved wounds… View from The Lighthouse – St Tropez Harbour
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It’s The Lever – The Beginning and The End. As a High Achiever, it’s Your Identity that’s gotten you to where you are today. If you haven’t found what you are looking for, and you are unhappy in life, feel empty, unfulfilled, it makes sense that changing your identity is the answer. Most coaches teach
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