We all have a unique lens, with which we look on life. Dealing with our thoughts about, our prescription of life, in our own unique way. However, none of us, enjoy pain. We all, will do anything, not to feel the pain inside us. We distract, or numb ourselves, using any of the methods we’ve learned, to accomplish this. Bury our heads in the sand, hoping, things will work out. This works, for a time, it just becomes more difficult as we move through our lives. More of what we’re doing, is normally required for us to reach the same point. Eventually, this strategy, simply fails. The real situation we now find ourselves in, can be extremely difficult, if not impossible to rectify.
Making the decision to change, is the most important decision we can make in our lives. It can take a moment for our lives to change, after we’ve experienced trauma of some kind. It can also take a moment for us to begin to rectify the situation we are now in.
When we use our energy to think about, and visualise who we would like to be, as opposed to using it to, remain as we are. It allows us to move forward, we can now begin to create the life we would like to experience.