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Why it’s Keeping You Stuck – More Importantly
I spent most of my life in – Functional Freeze.
On the outside, I looked like I had it together
driven, successful, resilient.
But Underneath, I was sometimes Hypervigilant,
other times – Shut Down, Disconnected.
Holding it all in – Pushing through – it’s What We Do
As HIGH ACHIEVERS growing up in HIGH ACHIEVING
ENVIRONMENTS – it’s What We are Taught/Learn to do
CONTROL – FORCE – GRIND and HUSTLE for the
acceptance of our caregivers, society, teachers, tribe
All my life, I’d fought for my autonomy, to feel in control
I wasn’t THINKING this – it was VISCERAL
When I was in control, better than you, faster, more
skilful – had more resources – I was safe
This was taken to another level in my 20’s being
embroiled in a fight for control (safety) in our business
a toxic environment – with unhealthy people (partners)
My vision – continue living as you are, it’s not safe to
give in to the manipulation, you’ll be able to f#ck them
over when you get your hands on the shares you need
What I didnโt realise was that I was still stuck in the
same survival Iโd lived in since I was a kid.
Always under pressure – proving – performing
or worried about performing at the level ” I ” expected
No Real Safety – Peace or REGULATION.
When I collapsed and ended up in ICU,
it wasnโt a shock – It was the result of decades of
unresolved pressure, emotion, burnout, shutdown,
and survival-based living
in business, in relationships, in lifeโฆ
YOU WILL NOT CONTROL ME!!!
Top-down approaches wouldnโt have helped me.
Yes – I had a survival mindset, (not GROWTH)
dressed up as resilience and success.
But I understood it went MUCH DEEPER
And thatโs what most people miss.
You canโt use EFT, EMDR, COLD WATER THERAPY
HYPNOSIS, or REFRAME your way out of a system
thatโs never felt, or doesn’t feel safe.
You canโt journal your way out
of a lifetime of contraction.
MINDSET your way through shutdown.
I didnโt heal through theory – I rebuilt myself.
Through real-life integration.
This is what I teach now.
Not concepts or coping strategies.
Real change – from the inside out.
This work isnโt all about mindset.
Itโs about becoming, someone different,
whatever that means to you, it’s your movie,
from the nervous system up.
Itโs not pretty – but itโs real – and it works.
In my video content I mention, adding, or deleting
your personal experience/issues, my method
addresses them all, it’s based in BIOLOGY
Take a look at my website if you’d like to work
together – let’s create YOUR amazing experience of life